HOW TO BUILD HAPPY FAMILY ?

Happy family is one of the main ambition every people, because the the happiness of living in this word is when someone has happy family. so that way the people do everything to get it.

what having much money is the guarantee to have happy family. the fact say no. a lot of rich people have unsuccessful family. everyone is able to build happy family. it is only needed to understand each other duty between husband and wife. the research has showed 85% of the broken home that the between husband and wife don't understand their duty.

The Way has Good Speaking

all of the people want to speak English fluently, of course practicing your English as much as possible is the best method. without realizing our vocabulary will increase as far as we practice it.

In my Blog, I will post the interesting topics which can be used to practice your English. it is base on my experience that it can make my English to be Better and better. event you can use them for teaching speaking class if you are teacher of English.

to develop your speaking, you should
  1. Have special time for practicing your English. Don't be long time, 30 minutes are enough. At the first time I used to practice my English in the morning while take walk.
  2. Don't ever stop to speak up even thought you find the difficult vocabulary. of course you must combine using Indonesian Language, and remember the difficult word after practicing you can look up in the dictionary.
  3. practice your English as much as possible. it means that practicing is at once time not enough or you should consistent.
  4. increase your vocabulary by reading English text, story, or literature. if you find the difficult word, underline it and you can look up dictionary after reading at all. while reading you can try to get the meaning the word by guessing the meaning.
  5. Be patient. because studying English is not really easy as you think.
If you do all of them, your English will be better and better as long as time. the key of success is patient and don't ever give up. #Good Luck#

Love

Love is the power changing spine is to be a rose, changing vinegar is to be arrack, changing sadness is to be happiness, changing hate is to be affection. this is simple one of love definition.
don't you ever fall in love? Of course!!!, every one ever fall in love with their God, their parents, their child or your special friend!
it's normal and in Islamic religion calls sunnatulloh.
there are some factors to make the love to be Armour (cinta kasih)

The first is introduction. love will not appear between the lovers if they don't know each other first. there are many reasons making some one fall in love, because of the beauty, the behavior, the need act. lovers know all of them after introduction.

The second is responsibility, it means that the lovers should be ready to receive both duty and mission which position the lover is. example you are as father, of course you should look for the money to fulfill your family need.

The shirt is attention. the lovers should care with who or what the lovers love. of course it will make strengthen of the lovers' relationship.

The fourth is respectful each other, remember the human being is both the individual and social soul. so it is really needed. because the someone fall in love because they really feel to be respected by their couple.

so that way the lovers should keep their love by guarding it

Over Come Your Problem

Avoiding problem is impossible, because the human being living in this earth is problem. the problem cannot avoid but face and solve it.

Here I have some tips the way for solving your problem
Firstly looking at the problem appropriately, if the problem is hard, solving it seriously. if the problem is not really serious, don't make it to be bigger.

Secondly you must have the strategies of over coming problem, but every one has the different to solve their problems. it should be like your character, so you must understand your self. don't ever compare with other people

The last we must be patient and pray to your God, I believe that Allah swt giving the problem is suitable with our capability.

The Best Way of Learning English

The human being could not live lonely, they need to communicate each other. for communicating people use language
English language is used by almost of people in the word wide. many people study English because they hope to get better live or realize how important that language. don't you have the interesting way to learn English?
some people think that English Language is difficult
firstly, the learners are afraid of making mistake, in their minds always think structure construction if you are the beginner of English leaner avoid it and speak up as far as you can. when you get the difficult vocabulary and don't know it you can use your mother language. combine it with English and enjoy it.

Remember not all of the structure are necessary to use in speaking. if you have simple present, past and future are enough.

Impossible you can speak English without having any English vocabulary. here you have to memorize the English vocabulary as much as possible. every day you just need 3 vocabulary to memorize, I think it isn't too hard for you.

The third you must practice your English by your partners or yourself in front of the mirror. don't forget speaking Up

The last you must be consistent with all of the regulation
One later you will feel your English Chang to be better then before.



ABDUL NYONTEK GAK LAH!!

Kemaren hari terahir aku ujian, and pelajarannya lumayan berat sih tapi gak usah kawatir Abdul kan lumayan smart gitu.
Selama ujian kemaren ini, kejahatan akademis menjadi hal yang biasa tapi gak semuanya lo!! tetep masih ada yang jujur contohnya Abdul ini he..he.. Narsih dikit. Gak apa - apakan muji diri sendiri sekali2 coy!!!, kalau aku sih!! cendrung jadi korban kejahatan, namanya pemerkosaam akademis kalau gak dicontek'in dibilangin aku sombong, jahat, gak pengertian dsb.
Dosenku pernah bilang sih!! kalau nyontek itu adalah metode belajar paling bagus dan paling efektif, tapi jangan salah salah paham dulu yang dimaksut bukan nyonteknya tapi proses menyonteknya ini loh!! bisa menemukan, memahami dan mengingat jawaban dalam tempo yang sesingkat -singkatnya, luar biasa kan !!
Tapi kenapa nyontek kok dilarang sih? pasti ada hal2 tidak baik/negatif pertama membuat kita jadi orang tidak percaya dengan kemampuan diri kita sendidri kedua membunuh dan membuat otak kita jadi mandul ketiga menjadikan semakin terprosok dalam kebodohan, keempat menjatuhkan harkat dan martabat diri sendiri. makanya gak usah nyontek pokoknya.
katanya mau jadi pelajar sekses, syaratnya harus mau berkerja keras dengan belajar dengan sungguh- sungguh. Jangan seperti temanku yang masuk kuliah setiap jum'at kliwon alasanya sibuk dengan kegitan organisasis seperti juki, kudul-kudul, wong Enggong, wong kucluk dan yang merasa wae maaf sekedar memotivasi. Bagaimana pun hal itu salah, ingat kita harus menjadi pelajar yang organisatoris akademis maksutnya tidak hanya pintar dalam akademis saja tapi juga dalam organisasi, kerenkan!!
udah!! angap aja kemarin itu adalah mimpi dan sekarang adalah kenyataan dan besok adalalah harapan dan cita2, katanya bang Hendrik Susilo ( maaf bang!! kalau salah nulis nama, ka'akehan K yo!! angap itu sebagai mimpi he..he... hormat Dan besok tak rubah ) sampai disini dulu!! udah siang waktunya cari pangapuripan anak istri. see U and I love You muach!!!!

Abdul is also human being

mHai!!!
ini diary aku, abdul biasa dikenal BaNg Jack, yang pertama aku tulis di bloq. biasanya aku tulis dibuku coy. tujuannya agar aku bisa berbagi pengalaman dengan kamu semuanya dan juga sebagai intropeksi diri.

Kamu bisa kasih komentar kok, tapi awas gak boleh menghina atau menulis penghinaan kepada SARA nanti dimarahi ibu guru lo!!

yang mungkin kadang ceritanya lucu dan terkadang juga sedih. biasa manusia itu tidak selamanya bahagiakan "Abdul is also human being" artinya Abdul juga manusia.

karena kesibukan kuliah, organisasi dsb tapi gak yang satu ini "pacaran", gak semapat ngupdate bloq ini jadi maaf. tapi abdul janji kok!! insyall tak sempatkan nulis. kan cita - cata aku pingin jadi penulis hebat, amin!!!!

Wes itu aja dulu, ini waktunya mandi dan siap - siap kuliah. sampai jumpa I love you.. Muah!!!